Men who are admired because of their decision-making, their charisma, that they always know what to do, use a foolproof method.
They always take decisions, they become accustomed to choose, you understand ..... choose from when they wake up in the morning when they go to bed, are determined to be determined, choosing the most trivial to the most important.
A few examples .... when they get up go to the bathroom seek to use few minutes, choose a shirt, a sweater, or dress, jacket, , giving value to their tastes consistent with their personality.
They do it without hesitation, without saying .. "but I do not know, you say .... I'm fine with this or that, or better, and the blue or blue ... they are not conducive to confusion , indecision, you give a couple of alternatives and then ..... choose.
Or ..
This evening we go to the cinema or restaurant? "But I do not know I do not know if we go to the restaurant what we eat fish or meat?, Or pizza, go to the cinema? .... And that movie? what kind ?.... etc., etc., listing thousands of possibilities to the mind by offering too many options leads us right to stay at home.
is highly deleterious to ask others to decide for us, we think that taking small decisions is not important, but the muscle of the decision spread, even in those moments, those moments in your training is essential.
Now I have done just examples, but if we really are many situations where we are staying in daily life.
In truth we choose the time, even when we think we do not make decisions, because even then we decided, we decided not to choose.
The difference is that when we choose not to choose, the changes can easily go in a different direction than we would have liked us.
This fear stems from the fact that the idea of \u200b\u200bmaking a mistake, failure, a bad figure among the most feared bogeymen of our society, in which the only option is success.
Even those who call errors often contain valuable lessons!
Learning to decide means first of all learn to accept mistakes, as the error is covered in learning, and the word failure we gave it a meaning too important.
The failure does not exist, there are experiences, and nothing is really lost when you are wrong, when an attempt fails.
The failure does not exist, there are experiences, and nothing is really lost when you are wrong, when an attempt fails.
And whatever the decision that we have inadequate taken, we always have time to decide to change and act differently.
make a good decision is not the ability to read the future.
is rather ability to listen and hear what is best for us, without being influenced by fears and concerns the outside world.
And when you happen to not be able to find within themselves the answers, we can always inform, question, read, study, take care to have more data as possible to bring the error rate to a minimum .
Who is in charge of any organization, whether industrial, political, scientific know the value of having people around him who can provide advice, information, offer a different view, another point of view.
If we make use of these methods, to decide not be a problem.
Greetings
is rather ability to listen and hear what is best for us, without being influenced by fears and concerns the outside world.
And when you happen to not be able to find within themselves the answers, we can always inform, question, read, study, take care to have more data as possible to bring the error rate to a minimum .
Who is in charge of any organization, whether industrial, political, scientific know the value of having people around him who can provide advice, information, offer a different view, another point of view.
If we make use of these methods, to decide not be a problem.
Greetings
0 comments:
Post a Comment